Tag: Lucky Few

I wrote “Croup, Care & Comfort” a couple of weeks ago. It initially started off as a way for me to process what had happened to Robert – and putting “pen to paper” so to speak, was an ideal way for me to process.

Je l’ai écrit en anglais pour que mes mots et émotions puissent toucher le grand public. Ma famille parle le français, mais mon cercle d’amis est composé des franco et des anglophones. Je voulais toucher le plus de personnes possible. En plus, je trouve ma voix plus facilement en anglais.

Today I had a call with a woman who is working on awareness in the health community. She is seeking to make the region we live in an area that recognizes the importance of French services. We had a nice, brief chat about how Robert’s story and experience at the hospital could help shape and train future health care employers on the importance of offering services in French. Not only in hospitals, but in nursing homes, home care providers and outreach employers.

What happens if (when) Robert has early onset Alzheimer’s? It’s an affliction that he is more susceptible to having. People who suffer from Alzheimer’s often revert back to their mother tongue. While Robert will certainly be raised bilingual, will he revert to French in that situation? It is his mother tongue after all… And if he does, will there be health care providers around to treat him with the dignity and respect he deserves?

It’s difficult to imagine my sweet, funny, charming 5 year old as an old man. But one day he will be an old man, and he (like most of us) will require care.

I want him to be able to access services that make him feel that he is a valued person. One of the ways he will be shown his value is by accessing care in French. Even if the person who is assisting him in care has only a very basic knowledge of French, being able to communicate with him is going to be of utmost importance. It will help him feel comfortable and less afraid. Even thinking about it helps me feel more comfortable and less afraid for him.

So when this woman asked me if she could share Robert’s story in a training she is offering, I was happy to say yes. I want people to hear how their actions can have a big impact. When the doctor began to speak with Robert in French, I could feel his stress level decrease. I know my own stress level decreased. Afterwards, I spoke with some nurses and the respiratory technician. They told me they didn’t even know the Resident could speak French! What an eye opening experience for everyone that night!

Small actions – like asking my son (in French) how his day was – can have ripple effects and become something greater. This small action is allowing us to advocate for Robert in new and different ways.

Robert, tu changes le monde.